A few years ago, I lost my parents over the holidays and decided to live for the rest of my life off their savings. While I do have my mother’s name on a couple pieces of clothing I wear, I will keep their wedding anniversary ring on the ring I wear on my right hand. Then it’s her mother’s house, her parents’ houses, her friends’ houses, my house, etc. And so, for a short time, I lost that all but completely.
To live a balanced life, many women live on their fathers money. So, when your wife needs the funds to go to college, she borrows her dad’s money. Some women, being women, are afraid to let her get to that point or feel that a man is taking all the available money and there’s nothing they can do. Old blog: Why not just use your dad’s credit card. The credit card system is already well proven.
You are not the only one who is afraid to give women the same amount a men is spending. And, women are afraid of anything men are afraid to do. These women have an issue with giving the same amount a man is giving her so she has to work extra hard to get what she wants. The reason for this is not her lack of self esteem as women can be controlling and manipulative to get what they want.
Don’t be a “girl” and you’ll never get the respect you deserve.
As men are more focused on other women, women are focused more towards how to please and impress the man. And thats not something you can control. Be proud to be a woman and show off your value and what you have. Even today. Old blog: If a woman is worried that a mans money wont get her where she needs to go, she just does the next best thing: she steals it.
If you are afraid to show your beauty without words, then just do it. And, there is beauty in your hands. It is only an act of creation. And, the more you create, the more wonderful it will feel. It was always said that beauty is only skin deep, but in fact it can be the greatest act of all.